Managing Relationships with Family Members Experiencing Cognitive Decline
The holiday season often brings cherished moments with loved ones, but it can also shine a spotlight on changes in family dynamics, especially when a family member is experiencing cognitive decline. Whether due to Alzheimer’s, dementia, or another condition, these changes can challenge relationships, leading to frustration, sadness, or even a sense of loss. As we step into a new year, it’s a wonderful opportunity to reset, focus on positivity, and strengthen your connection with your loved one.
At The Geneva Suites, our mission to enhance lives is built around our core values: fostering respectful collaboration, education, and safety. These principles can also guide how you approach your relationship with a loved one who is navigating cognitive challenges.
Acknowledge the Changes, But Focus on the Heart of the Relationship
Cognitive decline often changes how we interact with our loved ones. While it’s natural to grieve these changes, it’s also important to remember the core of who they are remains. Shifting your expectations can help you focus on the moments of joy that still exist.
New Year’s Resolution Tip: Commit to finding one positive memory or interaction each day. Maybe it’s a smile they offer, a story they tell (even if it’s not accurate), or the comfort of holding their hand.
Create a Positive Communication Plan
When memory or cognition is impaired, communication often requires patience and creativity. Short, simple sentences, a calm tone, and open body language can make conversations feel less stressful and more meaningful.
For instance, if your loved one becomes confused or agitated, pause, breathe, and respond with reassurance rather than correction. Instead of saying, “That’s not what happened,” you might say, “I love that memory you shared.”
New Year’s Resolution Tip: Resolve to practice active listening and empathetic communication. Keep in mind respectful collaboration—approaching interactions with love and understanding fosters connection.
Welcome the New Year with Kindness and Care
As we welcome 2025, let’s embrace the opportunity to focus on what truly matters in our relationships: love, patience, and meaningful connection. Choosing a supportive care environment for your loved one isn’t a loss—it’s an act of love for both of you. It provides them with the care they need while allowing you to step fully into your role as a family member, supported by a compassionate team dedicated to their safety and well-being.
This year, let’s make it our resolution to approach these relationships with intention and care. By fostering moments of joy, re-establishing healthy boundaries, and prioritizing connection, we can continue to enhance not only their lives but our own as well. Together, we can make 2025 a year of deeper understanding, renewed bonds, and shared happiness.
Warm wishes for an amazing and meaningful New Year!